No instructions, just instinct

Having a family doesn't come with instructions. It's all up to us to decipher and make our own little conclusions as to how it's supposed to be. One has to stay calm, and the other can panic all they want in any situation. A 103 fever for my 17 month old gave us the scare. My husband kept saying he was so nervous about how hot our son is. I, on the other hand, have been panicking inside, but I had to stay calm and stay positive about the situation. It is hard, but, if both of us were getting anxious,my son would end up in the emergency room and get poked with unnecessary intravenous that will forever traumatize us, as a family.